Punishment Dare - Day ?????

So... I took a rather long break. It's been a busy few months and honestly, I haven't made a huge amount of progress. It was somewhat too easy relying on the denial wheel, instead of progressing with the punishment thread. Things calmed down towards the end of 2018 and I started again. I went back to regular (mostly) daily teasing and start adhering to the thread rules again. I am no longer reporting report daily, I've committed to reporting weekly on Get Dare, but even that was a stretch and I've already had to post punishment rules for not following that schedule. With everything that has been going on on Tumblr I've hesitated about starting to blog again. But I think it might be time. Will decide later if I'm sticking to just Blogger or continuing to do Tumblr too.  

If things become to hectic again or if the no touch just becomes too much, I 'll take another hiatus but will try to set a pre-determined time this time around.

For those who are curious I landed on a choice wedge once and he was nice enough to allow me 3 orgasms. I was allowed 45 minutes of clit tickling with the wool calligraphy brush, followed by 10 minutes with the magic wand (if I could not come from the brush alone), I also landed on orgasm once on my own. I also landed on ruined orgasm once. So I have had 2 days when I got to have orgasm and 1 day with a ruined orgasm since this began.

If I do do the hiatus again I am going to remove all the orgasm options other than the choice options. That will allow for a small chance to orgasm, but leave it under someone else's control.

I started actively working on the punishment tread again on December 29th. Since I've received pretty regular teasing sessions and pretty much done daily punishment sessions. My reports for those are available on the punishment thread for those interested. Sorry but there's just too much to post here. I think I may just leave the reports for the punishment to get dare. I'll reserve this just to talk about my denial and how I'm feeling with regard to that denial.

I guess if I'm going to talk about how I'm feeling (horny), I do need to give you some details. First I've given control of my cunt and my clit to R, he's been providing me daily teasing since this started so this just seemed like the natural progression. He seems to understand that I have a real life and I trust him.  We've recently started playing with my Lovense toys and have taken things to a whole new level. We've done various sessions sometimes just inserting the Lush which is a basically a big bullet vibe and wearing it throughout the day has I did house work. R then got to turn it on randomly has I went about my day, We recently decided that this will be a regular Saturday afternoon even. I will insert the vibe every Saturday and it will be up to him whether or not to turn it on. The idea of being stuffed and at someone else's mercy is erotic. 

We've also done some more intense sessions where I've tied myself up set a timer inserted the vibe and blindfolded myself. Laying there with my legs spread not knowing when the pleasure would come or how long it would last, was intense. So he hasn't pushed me far enough to force an orgasm out of me, but we've talked about it and even agreed on punishments if and when it happens. 

The thread while not very active still produces more punishments than I can keep up with, so my denial is indefinite. I'm frustrated, but not desperate at the moment. The part that I'm struggling with is that I'm on no touch, at least when it comes to my pussy and clit. I'm only ever allowed to touch my clit with R's instructions and I'm getting very desperate. I'm allowed to play with my nipples and my ass, but I'm on holiday with family and don't have any toys. I can't seem to stop pinching my nipples though. I really really wish I could just finger my clit a little bit.

Job well done

Well some how the woman who only wanted to casually play has acquired a new sub. I made things official with my little denied boy last night. I have to say I'm extremely proud, he's managed to make it through 2 days and 29 edges, with spankings to either his balls and ass or  his cockhead before each edge.Now we just have to see if he can hold of until Saturday. His previous record is 3 days. We've been working to improve that. His lovely reports after each edging session leave me very excited.

He is allowed to have a ruined orgasm starting tomorrow.

• Wednesday: He can have a ruined orgasm after he edges if he rubs toothpaste on his cockhead and spanks his cockhead 50 times before he ruins. We did this as punishment and he assures me that it completely ruins his orgasm.
•  Thursday: He can have a ruined orgasm sans the extra spanks to his cockhead or the toothpaste. 
• Friday: He can have a full orgasm after he edges if he rubs toothpaste on his cockhead and spanks his cockhead 50 times.
• Saturday: He can have a full orgasm  

I also ended up doing a couple of PM dares. I wore a butt plug covered in Vick's VapoRub for 30 ,minutes, then whipped my pussy 100 times. After that I spanked my clit 200 times.  I was extremely wet and tender afterwards.

Still here!

Sorry, I've been horrible at keeping up with my posts.

On Friday I received a triple CLIT SPANK PM dare which means I have to spank my clit 150 times with a wooden spoon. Along with that one of my pets gained the right to orgasm after 10 long days of denial during which he had to edge several times a day and either spank his cock head or finger himself using toothpaste as lube between each edge. Poor thing hates toothpaste in his little hole.

In order to cum he had to get permission from 2 GetDare Members. In order to get permission my pet had to:

• Finger his ass for 30 minutes
• Edge for one hour
• Ruin his orgasm
• Eat his cum

This seemed a little cruel even for me so I allowed him to have a second orgasm full, after edging 3 more times, spanking his balls and covering his cockhead and asshole with toothpaste.

Worked on another little pet on increasing his stamina. I offered the boy a ruined orgasm after 2 days or a full orgasm after 4. Want to guess what our impatient boy chose? Of course if he's been good and not cum so many times without permission his ass and balls would be received much less spankings. 

Not much happening on Saturday. Received some more dares. Had to apply Tabasco to my clit, which burned deliciously and then whip my pussy 100 times. After that I was off to a party. Which lasted into the wee hours of the morning. I also managed to consume 2 bottles of wine. So I doubt anyone will be surprised when I say I was not up early on Sunday. My second sub, the one working on his self restraint opted to have a ruined orgasm. Even drunk, I quite enjoyed his report. I did manage to realize that I had no business providing instructions for his next denial period while intoxicated. 

I ended up sleeping a huge part of Sunday away. My impatient little denial subby who simply had to do 3 edging session a day with 3 edges each. Before each session he had to flip a coin before and had to spank his cock head 5 times before each edge if the coin landed on heads. His denial was supposed to last for 6 days of denial. He ended up cumming without permission and starting over so many times that he earned some impressive punishment. He managed to turn his initial dare into 10 spanks to his cockhead if he flipped heads and 20 spanks to his ass, followed by 15 spanks to his balls if he flipped tails. And we had to reduce the time frame.

Since he did manage to make it to his authorized ruined orgasm this time, I did agree to reduce the slaps to either his ass, balls or cockhead. Predictably he chose his balls. I then informed him that we'd increase the number of spanks to one of the remaining areas by 10. He hates getting his ass spanked, so twenty spanks to his cock head it is. He has to edge 3 times a day and roll a die before each session to see how many times he has to edge.

One the subbier side of the fence. I've opted not to start my next dare until after Labour day. This is mostly because I'm camping with friends, so not a lot of privacy to be had. For yesterday's dares I had to rub toothpaste on my clit and spank my sit spot my ridding crop 150 times. I then had to whip my pussy 300 times. That made me extremely sore and wet. I won't lie since I'm not in denial I took the opportunity to make my self cum with the magic wand after that.

Orgasm Denial Week - Finished - Orgasm Day

So after seven days of denial, yesterday I got to orgasm. I'm almost regretting that I didn't do the full 2 weeks of denial, but I imagine that I'll get quite enough of that when I start dice dare again. I'm accumulating PM dares nicely, hopefully I wasn't overly ambitious considering considering the 24th is a work day. 

In addition to my new Lush toy which I tried out extensively yesterday, I also bought a Nora. Both nice toys smartphone controlled toys, though it's a shame that the don't both use the same interface. The Nora 's app allows you to customize and save patterns which is a lot of fun. It also allows you to save patterns and to loops them. The controls on the Nora are obviously more complex, but saving programs would be nice. That feature almost let's you audition a partner without playing with them. It also allows your partner to pre-load teases which I think is a lot of fun. 

I do have to admit the Nora (Rabbit vibe) brought me to some very nice orgasms. I think the Lush (bullet vibe) is a much better teasing toy. 

On the other side of the fence, I took on a new sub. One from the never ending barrage of male subs asking for me to be their mistress. It's true what they say about being female in BDSM. Multiply that if your community username starts with an A. 

This one actually, put some though and time into his request though, so I gave him a chance.I assigned a massive task involving spanking, CBT, chemical play, anal, ruined orgasm, edging and denial. I actually received a very satisfying report in return. We'll see how this one works out. 

Now it's back to another week of denial.

Orgasm Denial Week - Day 2 - Next Orgasm on August 17th.

Did some morning edging while getting ready for work in the shower. After finishing work I received the final draft of my next dare and I have to said I'm very excited to start. I was also asked to do two edges which I completed before bed.

Also played with 4 other online friends throughout the day. One doesn't like denial just teasing so I went easiest on him.After an hour of teasing he got to have a nice orgasm. And he'll be returning the favour at some point, minus the orgasm of course.

The second boy, got to ruin his orgasm.

The third as permission to cum, but only from anal stimulation. He's still working on that, along with nightly edges.

My last unfortunate playmate only got to edge while spanking his cock-head with a wooden spoon prior to each edge. He hasn't been allowed anything but 2 ruin orgasm in over 2 weeks.

Obviously all that playing has left me very horny.

Cum Calendar Dare - Day 30 of 30 - Orgasm

And I'm spent! Finally done! Day 30 finally over and done. I'm know starting a week of denial. My next orgasm will be next Wednesday, August 17th. Likely won't be doing anything too exciting since I have a physical scheduled in a couple of weeks. Probably just some daily edging and teasing. Though I may do some light spanking this week.

I woke up late yesterday, but did manage to delivery a clit spanking, edge and to give myself 2 orgasms in the shower before heading out to work. I spent most of the night playing with a sparkly brand new sub. Much later than I should have. Had the poor thing ruin his first orgasm, so very much worth it. 

After all that was said and done I gave myself a good firm clit spanking. I then edged twice using a electric toothbrush on my clit. Finally I used the shower head to bring myself to two very nice orgasms. 

Cum Calendar Dare - Day 27 of 30 - Orgasm

Finally back home. Will miss the family, but I'm glad to be back in the air conditioning. It was super hot during my week off and my sister's place has no AC. Probably one of the reasons that I ended up leaving early. Weather was beautiful on the way back and made it back in less than 8 hours. 

Once I unloaded the car and ordered some diner since I didn't really have any food on hand. I started out by edging 4 times. Then I started the clit spankings. First delivering 100 and then edging. By the time I reached 250, I knew I was in trouble. By 500 my clit was so sore, that I had to take a short break. Each subsequent edge was very intense. I even accidentally ruined once edging with the magic wand. 

Not the end of the world since I had to ruin an orgasm anyway. I did however intensify the spankings as much as I could stand. I try to hold edges, but completely failed. 

By the time I completed all 1150 smacks to my clit, it was sore and throbbing. And I still needed to complete another 7 edges. I did those in the shower. As you can imagine they were very intense. I finally made myself come twice with the shower head. 

At that point I was just to tired and rested for a half hour, before using the magic wand on my very sensitive clit to bring myself off another 2 times. My clit is still aching today.

Cum Calendar Dare - Day 19 of 20 - Ruined Orgasm

Kind of cleaned up as I went along yesterday, so no punishment. The things I did leave out I left out on purpose because I'm leaving for vacation today. Also completed all chore before turning in.

Obviously resolved my internet problem. Exchanged the faulty modem for a new one and this one works wonderfully.

Ended up getting a surprise visit from friends I hadn't seen in a while and we ended up going to see Star Trek Beyond. Got a little bummed out every time Anton Yelchin appeared on screen, but aside from that it was a pretty good movie. Much better than the last one. I'll never understand why they thought they should try to remake Wrath of Khan.

Go home installed the new modem, recreated my wireless network and made dinner, then complete chores and responded to a couple of  PMS.
Ended the evening by delivering a clit spanking and edging and giving myself two ruined orgasms with the Magic Wand.

Cum Calendar Dare - Day 11 of 30 - Ruined Orgasm

Housework Punishment V2:

• Complete chores while: 7  (Naked)
• Mental tally: 9
• Physical Inventory: 3
• Number of spanks: 9
• Implement(s): 7 (Bathbrush)
• How punishment is delivered: 3  (Over underwear)
• Severity of punishment: 8 (Half Medium/Half Hard)

Finally have my new air-conditioner! Let me tell you I was excited when the phone rang for the delivery. It's all installed, the old AC has been moved into the master bedroom and my apartment now suitably feels like an ice box. I did spend the day working from my home office which gave me the opportunity to tease myself several times throughout the day. I started out with my usual routine Magic wand and the shower head to edge. Later during the day I inserted my Hula Beads set to random while I was working to keep things entertaining. Once I was done work I used one of my rabbit vibes to edge again.

I also decided to up my clit punishment. I'm considering joining a tit/clit punishment thread, but I think it might be a little too much for me. To see if I had any chance of surviving I decided to give my clit 100 smacks with a wooden spoon. Ended up doing this about 5 times throughout the day. My clit is nice and sensitive now. I'm still pretty scared of joining the thread though.

Through all that I successfully completed my chores yesterday, including getting rid of the packaging for the new AC. I also stripped the bed in preparation for the new mattress I'm getting today. Since I had to stay home today to accept the air-conditioner delivery I decided to buy a new bed on Wednesday in the hopes I could have it delivered while I was working from home. They ended up only being able to deliver today, but it's just as well. It took me a while to setup and get the packaging for the AC out of the way.

Once I'd completed my chores I spent some time on GetDare and Kink Talk answering a backlog of private messages. Ended up spending the rest of the evening indulging my dominant side, by busting a guys balls and guiding a second one through masturbation. I enjoyed both tremendously.

Once I was done I administered my daily punishment, then decided to give my clit another 100 spanks with the wooden spoon. I then hopped into the shower and edged twice before finally ruining an orgasm.

Cum Calendar Dare - Day 3 of 30 - Ruined Orgasm

Housework Punishment V2:

• Mental tally: 8
• Physical Inventory: 2
• Number of spanks: 8
• Implement(s): 9 (Flogger, followed by belt, followed by ping pong paddle)
• How punishment is delivered:  5  (Over underwear double the punishment)
• Severity of punishment: 11 (Hard) 

Edged right after waking with a vibrator and the Magic Wand, then again a couple of times in the shower after putting Icy-Hot on my clit before heading out to work. Not nearly as turned on has I was during my first orgasm denial dare, probably because I don't have the uncertainty of daily rolls, and those tiny possibilities that I might get to cum. This time I know exactly when.

Ended up being really tired from work and again, just did house work with no additional kink. All chores complete, but I still did manage to earn myself 48 swats for leaving things laying around. I was lucky I rolled over underwear, because I was not feeling a bare bottom spanking.

I bought a Zeus Arcana Vibe Wand a few weeks back. It's basically a Hitachi Magic Wand, but with electrostim. I honestly have trouble standing the socks, it's something I'll have to train myself to accept. I thought this would be an excellent way to torture my clit.  I was right, I couldn't stand even the lowest electro setting and had to switch to giving myself manual shocks, even then I was only able to take a couple of minutes. I think it's more a mental block than anything else considering some of the things I've done to my clit.

Once I'd done that I ended up edging in the shower again before finally ruining another orgasm.

Cum Calendar Dare - Day 2 of 3 - Ruined Orgasm

Housework Punishment V2:

• Mental tally: 7
• Physical Inventory: 1
• Number of spanks: 7
• Implement(s): 11 (Flogger, paddle, bathbrush and flogger while Figged.)
• How punishment is delivered:  11  (Bare Bottom triple the punishment)
• Severity of punishment: 6 (Medium) 

Woke up yesterday morning and edged with the Magic Wand, then spanked my clit 15 times with a wooden spoon. I then flogged my pussy 15 times. I packed my lunch for the day then popped into the shower and edged another 3 times before going to work.

Got home from work and  just wasn't feeling like implementing a kink for housework, so decided to just forgo that in favor of doing my chores. The entire point of the kink was to incentivize me into doing house work, if I'm hesitating to do house work because I just don't feel like wearing a plug today, it ends up being counter productive.I'm doing well and have most of my apartment sorted out. If I can just sort out the last room, all I'll have to do is maintain.

I ended up completing everything on my chore list, but still rolled a punishment for not cleaning up after myself. I ended up rolling 4 implements while holding a piece of ginger in my ass and a triple punishment. Ouch! This has actually been excellent aversion therapy to force myself to put things away when I'm done with them.

I decided to ruin my orgasm in the shower, after I punished my clit some more. First I edged again. Then clamped my clit for 2 minutes. Once the 2 minutes was up I rubbed my clit with the bristles of a toothbrush for 5 minutes, before clamping it for another 2 minutes. While my clit was clamped I turned the shower head to a gentle mist and used it continue teasing myself. After than I edged again and repeated the whole process before finally giving myself a very unsatisfying ruined orgasm. My clit ached for several minutes after I was done. Will have to see how I can punish it some more today.